Our life has been ruined because our Mother did not love and nurture us, our Father’s abuse destroyed our life or our loved one died and our life is now meaningless. We have many ways, with many reasons, of giving up our power.
There are people whose Mother did not love and nurture them who have created wonderful lives for themselves. Many, whose Father abused them, are very self-sufficient.
Why is it that 2 people can have similar experiences, but respond to them in totally different ways? What causes one person to allow an experience to ruin their life and another to use the experience to become stronger?
Own your power and become responsible for yourself.